הכרת הטוב
- How can we practice hakarat hatov not just as individuals, but as a community?
- Are there aspects of American society that we take for granted, and how might recognizing those blessings change our behavior?
- What responsibilities, if any, emerge from acknowledging that gratitude?
- What’s one new action you might take—small or large—that stems from a sense of gratitude for what you’ve received in your civic life?
(י) וְאָכַלְתָּ֖ וְשָׂבָ֑עְתָּ וּבֵֽרַכְתָּ֙ אֶת־יהוה אֱלֹהֶ֔יךָ עַל־הָאָ֥רֶץ הַטֹּבָ֖ה אֲשֶׁ֥ר נָֽתַן־לָֽךְ׃
(10) When you have eaten your fill, give thanks to your God יהוה for the good land given to you.
- What is the relationship between physical satisfaction (eating and being full) and spiritual or moral obligations (blessing and gratitude)?
- How might this verse apply to American Jews who live in relative comfort and security? Does material well-being increase our obligation for gratitude—or for action?
(לה) וְאִתְעַבָּרַת תּוּב וִילֵידַת בַּר וַאֲמָרַת הָדָא זִמְנָא אוֹדֵי קֳדָם יהוה דְמִן בְּרִי דֵין עָתִיד לְמֵיפַּק מַלְכִין וּמִינֵיהּ יִפּוֹק דָוִד מַלְכָּא דְעָתִיד לְאוֹדוּיֵי קֳדָם יהוה בְּגִין כֵּן קְרָת שְׁמֵיהּ יְהוּדָה וְקָמַת מִלְמֵילַד
(35) And she conceived again, and bare a son, and said, This time will I give praise before the Lord; for from this my son kings shall come forth, and from him shall spring David the king, who shall offer praise before the Lord; therefore she called his name Jehudah. And she ceased to bear.
אָמַר רַב יְהוּדָה אָמַר רַב: אַרְבָּעָה צְרִיכִין לְהוֹדוֹת: יוֹרְדֵי הַיָּם, הוֹלְכֵי מִדְבָּרוֹת, וּמִי שֶׁהָיָה חוֹלֶה וְנִתְרַפֵּא, וּמִי שֶׁהָיָה חָבוּשׁ בְּבֵית הָאֲסוּרִים וְיָצָא.
Rav Yehuda said that Rav said: Four must offer thanks to God with a thanks-offering and a special blessing. They are: Seafarers, those who walk in the desert, and one who was ill and recovered, and one who was incarcerated in prison and went out. All of these appear in the verses of a psalm (Psalms 107).
- This Talmudic teaching names four categories of people who must give thanks. What do these categories have in common?
- In modern terms, who are today’s “seafarers,” “desert travelers,” the sick who are healed, or those freed from confinement?
- Can we apply this framework to collective Jewish experiences in America, and what might those be?
תָּנוּ רַבָּנַן: הָרוֹאֶה אוּכְלוּסֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל, אוֹמֵר: ״בָּרוּךְ … חֲכַם הָרָזִים״ — שֶׁאֵין דַּעְתָּם דּוֹמָה זֶה לָזֶה, וְאֵין פַּרְצוּפֵיהֶן דּוֹמִים זֶה לָזֶה. בֶּן זוֹמָא רָאָה אוּכְלוּסָא עַל גַּב מַעֲלָה בְּהַר הַבַּיִת, אָמַר: ״בָּרוּךְ … חֲכַם הָרָזִים וּבָרוּךְ … שֶׁבָּרָא כׇּל אֵלּוּ לְשַׁמְּשֵׁנִי״.
The Sages taught in a Tosefta: One who sees multitudes of Israel recites: Blessed…Who knows all secrets. Why is this? He sees a whole nation whose minds are unlike each other and whose faces are unlike each other, and He Who knows all secrets, God, knows what is in each of their hearts. The Gemara relates: Ben Zoma once saw a multitude [okhlosa] of Israel while standing on a stair on the Temple Mount. He immediately recited: Blessed…Who knows all secrets and Blessed…Who created all these to serve me.Explaining his custom, he would say: How much effort did Adam the first man exert before he found bread to eat: He plowed, sowed, reaped, sheaved, threshed, winnowed in the wind, separated the grain from the chaff, ground the grain into flour, sifted, kneaded, and baked and only thereafter he ate. And I, on the other hand, wake up and find all of these prepared for me. Human society employs a division of labor, and each individual benefits from the service of the entire world. Similarly, how much effort did Adam the first man exert before he found a garment to wear? He sheared, laundered, combed, spun and wove, and only thereafter he found a garment to wear. And I, on the other hand, wake up and find all of these prepared for me. Members of all nations, merchants and craftsmen, diligently come to the entrance of my home, and I wake up and find all of these before me.
- Ben Zoma expresses wonder and gratitude at the benefits of living in a functioning society. What does this teach about interdependence?
- In your own life, what systems or people do you benefit from but rarely think to thank?
- How might civic engagement—like voting, advocacy, service, or community organizing—serve as a form of hakarat hatov?
(יד) חַיָּב אָדָם לְבָרֵךְ מֵאָה בְּרָכוֹת בֵּין הַיּוֹם וְהַלַּיְלָה. וּמַה הֵן מֵאָה בְּרָכוֹת אֵלּוּ. כ״ג בְּרָכוֹת שֶׁמָּנִינוּ בְּפֶרֶק זֶה. וְשֶׁבַע בְּרָכוֹת שֶׁל קְרִיאַת שְׁמַע שֶׁל שַׁחֲרִית וְעַרְבִית לְפָנֶיהָ וּלְאַחֲרֶיהָ. וּכְשֶׁמִּתְעַטֵּף בַּצִּיצִית מְבָרֵךְ בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ׳ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָׁנוּ בְּמִצְוֹתָיו וְצִוָּנוּ לְהִתְעַטֵּף בְּצִיצִית. וּכְשֶׁלּוֹבֵשׁ תְּפִלִּין מְבָרֵךְ בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ׳ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָׁנוּ בְּמִצְוֹתָיו וְצִוָּנוּ לְהָנִיחַ תְּפִלִּין. וְשָׁלֹשׁ תְּפִלּוֹת שֶׁבְּכָל תְּפִלָּה מֵהֶן שְׁמוֹנֶה עֶשְׂרֵה בְּרָכוֹת הֲרֵי שְׁמוֹנִים וְשֵׁשׁ בְּרָכוֹת. וּכְשֶׁהוּא אוֹכֵל שְׁתֵּי סְעֻדּוֹת שֶׁל יוֹם וְהַלַּיְלָה מְבָרֵךְ אַרְבַּע עֶשְׂרֵה בְּרָכוֹת. שֶׁבַע בְּכָל סְעֻדָּה. אַחַת כְּשֶׁיִּטּל יָדָיו תְּחִלָּה. וְעַל הַמָּזוֹן אַחַת בַּתְּחִלָּה וְשָׁלֹשׁ בַּסּוֹף וְעַל הַיַּיִן לְפָנָיו וּלְאַחֲרָיו הֲרֵי שֶׁבַע בְּרָכוֹת הֲרֵי מֵאָה בְּרָכוֹת בֵּין הַכּל:
(14) A person is obligated to recite 100 blessings [in the period of one] day and night. What are these 100 blessings? The twenty-three blessings that we have counted in this chapter, the seven blessings before and after Kri'at Shema in the morning and in the evening; When one wraps himself in tzitzit, he recites: Blessed are You, God, our Lord, King of the universe, who has sanctified us with His commandments and commanded us to wrap ourselves in tzitzit. When he puts on his Tefilin, he recites: Blessed are You, God, our Lord, King of the universe, who has sanctified us with His commandments and commanded us to put on Tefilin. [One recites] three Amidot, each of which contains eighteen blessings. Behold, this is 86 blessings. When one eats two meals, [one] during the day and [one] at night, one recites 14 blessings, seven for each meal: one when he washes his hands before eating, and, on the food itself, one before and three afterwards, on the wine, one before and one afterwards, [a total] of seven. Thus, there are 100 blessings all told.
- Rambam teaches that one should recite 100 blessings daily. What spiritual or ethical habit is created by this daily practice?
- How might cultivating daily gratitude affect how we interact with our neighbors, communities, and civic institutions?
- What might be the civic equivalent of “100 blessings”—small, regular acts of awareness or participation that build a culture of gratitude?