יַיִן וְשֵׁנָה
לָרְשָׁעִים, הֲנָאָה לָהֶן וַהֲנָאָה לָעוֹלָם,
וְלַצַּדִּיקִים, רַע לָהֶן וְרַע לָעוֹלָם.
Wine and sleep:
for the wicked, they are a benefit to them and a benefit for the world;
and for the righteous, they are bad for them and bad for the world.
The Sages taught: “Remember the day of Shabbat to sanctify it” (Exodus 20:7): Make mention of it over wine.
This indicates that it's only during the day, where is it that it should be done at night?
The verse states: “Remember the day of Shabbat to sanctify it.”
תנא כוס אחד יפה לאשה
שנים ניוול הוא
שלשה תובעת בפה
ארבעה אפילו חמור תובעת בשוק ואינה מקפדת
It was taught:
One cup is great for a woman;
two is a disgrace;
three she verbally requests sexual activity;
four - she requests sexual activity from even a donkey in the marketplace and she doesn't care.
תנו רבנן:
חייב אדם לשמח בניו ובני ביתו ברגל שנאמר ושמחת בחגך
במה משמחם?
ביין
רבי יהודה אומר אנשים בראוי להם ונשים בראוי להן
The Sages taught:
A man is obligated to gladden his children and the members of his household on a Festival, as it is stated: “And you shall rejoice on your Festival, you, and your son, and your daughter, and your manservant, and your maidservant, and the Levite, and the stranger, and the fatherless, and the widow that are within your gates” (Deuteronomy 16:14).
With what should one make them rejoice?
With wine.
Rabbi Yehudah says: "Men with what is fit for them and women with what is fit for them."
אָמַר רַבִּי אִילְעַאי, בִּשְׁלֹשָׁה דְּבָרִים אָדָם נִיכָּר: בְּכוֹסוֹ, וּבְכִיסוֹ וּבְכַעְסוֹ.
Rabbi Ila’ai said: “With three things can a person be recognized: with his cup, with his pocket, and with his anger.”
And some say, “Even with his laughter.”
Rabbi Ḥanin said: "Wine was created only in order to comfort mourners and to reward the wicked, as it is stated: 'Give beer to one that is ready to perish, and wine to the bitter of soul. Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more' (Proverbs 31:6)."
Rabbi Ḥanina said: "Whoever is appeased by his wine has in him the mind-set of his Creator, as it is stated: 'And the Lord smelled the sweet savor, and the Lord said in His heart, "I will not again curse the ground any more for man’s sake"' (Gen. 8:21)."
Rabbi Ḥiyya said: "Anyone who remains settled after wine has the mind-set of seventy Elders: Wine was given in seventy letters, secret was given in seventy letters; [when] wine enters, secrets emerge."
