- 1 וַיֵּרָ֤א אֵלָיו֙ ה׳ בְּאֵלֹנֵ֖י מַמְרֵ֑א וְה֛וּא יֹשֵׁ֥ב פֶּֽתַח־הָאֹ֖הֶל כְּחֹ֥ם הַיּֽוֹם׃
- 2 וַיִּשָּׂ֤א עֵינָיו֙ וַיַּ֔רְא וְהִנֵּה֙ שְׁלֹשָׁ֣ה אֲנָשִׁ֔ים נִצָּבִ֖ים עָלָ֑יו וַיַּ֗רְא וַיָּ֤רׇץ לִקְרָאתָם֙ מִפֶּ֣תַח הָאֹ֔הֶל וַיִּשְׁתַּ֖חוּ אָֽרְצָה׃
- 3 וַיֹּאמַ֑ר אדושם אִם־נָ֨א מָצָ֤אתִי חֵן֙ בְּעֵינֶ֔יךָ אַל־נָ֥א תַעֲבֹ֖ר מֵעַ֥ל עַבְדֶּֽךָ׃
- 4 יֻקַּֽח־נָ֣א מְעַט־מַ֔יִם וְרַחֲצ֖וּ רַגְלֵיכֶ֑ם וְהִֽשָּׁעֲנ֖וּ תַּ֥חַת הָעֵֽץ׃
- 5 וְאֶקְחָ֨ה פַת־לֶ֜חֶם וְסַעֲד֤וּ לִבְּכֶם֙ אַחַ֣ר תַּעֲבֹ֔רוּ כִּֽי־עַל־כֵּ֥ן עֲבַרְתֶּ֖ם עַֽל־עַבְדְּכֶ֑ם וַיֹּ֣אמְר֔וּ כֵּ֥ן תַּעֲשֶׂ֖ה כַּאֲשֶׁ֥ר דִּבַּֽרְתָּ׃
- 6 וַיְמַהֵ֧ר אַבְרָהָ֛ם הָאֹ֖הֱלָה אֶל־שָׂרָ֑ה וַיֹּ֗אמֶר מַהֲרִ֞י שְׁלֹ֤שׁ סְאִים֙ קֶ֣מַח סֹ֔לֶת ל֖וּשִׁי וַעֲשִׂ֥י עֻגֽוֹת׃
- 7 וְאֶל־הַבָּקָ֖ר רָ֣ץ אַבְרָהָ֑ם וַיִּקַּ֨ח בֶּן־בָּקָ֜ר רַ֤ךְ וָטוֹב֙ וַיִּתֵּ֣ן אֶל־הַנַּ֔עַר וַיְמַהֵ֖ר לַעֲשׂ֥וֹת אֹתֽוֹ׃
- 8 וַיִּקַּ֨ח חֶמְאָ֜ה וְחָלָ֗ב וּבֶן־הַבָּקָר֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר עָשָׂ֔ה וַיִּתֵּ֖ן לִפְנֵיהֶ֑ם וְהֽוּא־עֹמֵ֧ד עֲלֵיהֶ֛ם תַּ֥חַת הָעֵ֖ץ וַיֹּאכֵֽלוּ׃
- 1 Hashem appeared to him in the plains of Mamrei and he was sitting at the door of the tent in the heat of the day.
- 2 He lifted his eyes and saw, and behold three men were standing over him. He saw [them], and ran from the door of the tent to greet them, and he bowed down to the earth.
- 3 He said, My Master(s), if I have found favor in Your eyes, please do not bypass your servant.
- 4 Let a bit of water be brought and wash your feet. Rest yourselves under the tree.
- 5 I will get bread and you will sustain your heart. Afterwards you will continue on your way, since you have passed by your servant.
- They said, Fine, do as you have said.
- 6 Avraham hurried to Sarah’s tent and said, Hurry! [take] three measures of the finest flour; knead it and make rolls.
- 7 Avraham ran to the cattle, and took a tender, choice calf. He gave it to the lad. and hurried to prepare it.
- 8 He took butter, milk, and the calf he had prepared, and set it before them. He stood over them under the tree, and they ate.
| And [the Lord] appeared to him. |
| ...to visit the sick. |
| Said Rabbi Chama the son of Chanina: It was the third day from his circumcision, and the Holy One, blessed be He, came and inquired about his welfare | וַיֵּרָא אֵלָיו. לְבַקֵּר אֶת הַחוֹלֶה. אָמַר רַבִּי חָמָא בַּר חֲנִינָא, יוֹם שְׁלִישִׁי לְמִילָתוֹ הָיָה, וּבָא הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא וְשָׁאַל בִּשְׁלוֹמוֹ (בבא מציעא פ"ו): |
| at the entrance of the tent. |
| to see whether there were any passersby whom he would bring into his house. | פֶּֽתַח־הָאֹהֶל. לִרְאוֹת אִם יֵשׁ עוֹבֵר וָשָׁב וְיַכְנִיסֵם בְּבֵיתוֹ: |
| when the day was hot. |
| The Holy One, blessed be He, took the sun out of its sheath so as not to trouble him with wayfarers, but since He saw that he was troubled that no wayfarers were coming, He brought the angels to him in the likeness of men. | כחום הַיּֽוֹם. הוֹצִיא הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא חַמָּה מִנַּרְתִּיקָהּ, שֶׁלֹּא לְהַטְרִיחוֹ בְּאוֹרְחִים, וּלְפִי שֶׁרָאָהוּ מִצְטַעֵר שֶׁלֹּא הָיוּ אוֹרְחִים בָּאִים, הֵבִיא הַמַּלְאָכִים עָלָיו בִּדְמוּת אֲנָשִׁים (בבא מציעא שם): |
| And he said, “My lord(s), if only I have, etc.”. |
| ... he was telling the Holy One, blessed be He, to wait for him until he would run and bring in the wayfarers. | וַיֹּאמַר אדושם אִם־נָא |
| וְהָיָה אוֹמֵר לְהַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא לְהַמְתִּין לוֹ עַד שֶׁיָּרוּץ וְיַכְנִיס אֶת הָאוֹרְחִים |
| and they ate. They appeared to be eating. From here we learn that a person should not deviate from custom. — | וַיֹּאכֵֽלוּ. נִרְאוּ כְמִי שֶׁאָכְלוּ, מִכָּאן שֶׁלֹּא יְשַׁנֶּה אָדָם מִן הַמִּנְהָג (בבא מציעא שם): |
וַיֵּרָ֤א ה׳ אֶל־אַבְרָ֔ם וַיֹּ֕אמֶר לְזַ֨רְעֲךָ֔ אֶתֵּ֖ן אֶת־הָאָ֣רֶץ הַזֹּ֑את וַיִּ֤בֶן שָׁם֙ מִזְבֵּ֔חַ לַה׳ הַנִּרְאֶ֥ה אֵלָֽיו׃
Hashem appeared [became revealed] to Avram and said: To your descendants I will give this land. There he built an altar to [before] Adonoy Who had appeared [been revealed] to him.
וַיְהִ֣י אַבְרָ֔ם בֶּן־תִּשְׁעִ֥ים שָׁנָ֖ה וְתֵ֣שַׁע שָׁנִ֑ים וַיֵּרָ֨א ה׳ אֶל־אַבְרָ֗ם וַיֹּ֤אמֶר אֵלָיו֙ אֲנִי־אֵ֣ל שַׁדַּ֔י הִתְהַלֵּ֥ךְ לְפָנַ֖י וֶהְיֵ֥ה תָמִֽים׃
When Abram was ninety-nine years old, ה׳ appeared to Abram and said to him, “I am El Shaddai. Walk in My ways and be blameless.
אַחֲרֵ֨י ה׳ אֱלֹקֵיכֶ֛ם תֵּלֵ֖כוּ וְאֹת֣וֹ תִירָ֑אוּ וְאֶת־מִצְוֺתָ֤יו תִּשְׁמֹ֙רוּ֙ וּבְקֹל֣וֹ תִשְׁמָ֔עוּ וְאֹת֥וֹ תַעֲבֹ֖דוּ וּב֥וֹ תִדְבָּקֽוּן׃
After Hashem, your God, are you to go, fear Him, keep His commandments, heed His voice, serve Him, and cling to Him.
ובו תדבקון. הִדַּבֵּק בִּדְרָכָיו – גְּמֹל חֲסָדִים, קְבֹר מֵתִים, בַּקֵּר חוֹלִים, כְּמוֹ שֶׁעָשָׂה הַקָּבָּ"ה (סוטה י"ד):
ובו תדבקון AND UNTO HIM YE SHALL CLEAVE — i.e. cleave to His ways: do kindly actions, bury the dead, visit the sick, as did the Holy One, blessed be He (Sotah 14a).
וְאָמַר רַבִּי חָמָא בְּרַבִּי חֲנִינָא, מַאי דִּכְתִיב: ״אַחֲרֵי ה׳ אֱלֹקֵיכֶם תֵּלֵכוּ״,
וְכִי אֶפְשָׁר לוֹ לְאָדָם לְהַלֵּךְ אַחַר שְׁכִינָה? וַהֲלֹא כְּבָר נֶאֱמַר ״כִּי ה׳ אֱלֹקֶיךָ אֵשׁ אוֹכְלָה הוּא״!
אֶלָּא, לְהַלֵּךְ אַחַר מִדּוֹתָיו שֶׁל הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא:
מָה הוּא מַלְבִּישׁ עֲרוּמִּים, דִּכְתִיב: ״וַיַּעַשׂ ה׳ אֱלֹקִים לְאָדָם וּלְאִשְׁתּוֹ כׇּתְנוֹת עוֹר וַיַּלְבִּשֵׁם״ — אַף אַתָּה הַלְבֵּשׁ עֲרוּמִּים.
הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא בִּיקֵּר חוֹלִים, דִּכְתִיב: ״וַיֵּרָא אֵלָיו ה׳ בְּאֵלֹנֵי מַמְרֵא״ — אַף אַתָּה בַּקֵּר חוֹלִים.
הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא נִיחֵם אֲבֵלִים, דִּכְתִיב: ״וַיְהִי אַחֲרֵי מוֹת אַבְרָהָם וַיְבָרֶךְ אֱלֹקִים אֶת יִצְחָק בְּנוֹ״ — אַף אַתָּה נַחֵם אֲבֵלִים.
הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא קָבַר מֵתִים, דִּכְתִיב: ״וַיִּקְבֹּר אוֹתוֹ בַּגַּי״ — אַף אַתָּה קְבוֹר מֵתִים....
And Rabbi Ḥama, son of Rabbi Ḥanina, says:
What is the meaning of that which is written: “After the Lord your God shall you walk... (Deuteronomy 13:5)?
Is it actually possible for a person to follow the Divine Presence? But hasn’t it already been stated: “For the Lord your God is a devouring fire...” (Deuteronomy 4:24), and one cannot approach fire. He explains:
Rather, the meaning is that one should follow the attributes of the Holy One, Blessed be He.
Just as He clothes the naked, as it is written: “And the Lord God made for Adam and for his wife garments of skin, and clothed them” (Genesis 3:21), so too, should you clothe the naked.
Just as the Holy One, Blessed be He, visits the sick, as it is written with regard to God’s appearing to Abraham following his circumcision: “And the Lord appeared unto him by the plains of Mamre” (Genesis 18:1), so too, should you visit the sick.
Just as the Holy One, Blessed be He, consoles mourners, as it is written: “And it came to pass after the death of Abraham, that God blessed Isaac his son” (Genesis 25:11), so too, should you console mourners.
Just as the Holy One, Blessed be He, buried the dead, as it is written: “And he was buried in the valley in the land of Moab” (Deuteronomy 34:6), so too, should you bury the dead.
מַעֲשֶׂה בְּרַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר וְרַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ וְרַבִּי צָדוֹק שֶׁהָיוּ מְסוּבִּין בְּבֵית הַמִּשְׁתֶּה בְּנוֹ שֶׁל רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל, וְהָיָה רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל עוֹמֵד וּמַשְׁקֶה עֲלֵיהֶם.
נָתַן הַכּוֹס לְרַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר וְלֹא נְטָלוֹ, נְתָנוֹ לְרַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ וְקִיבְּלוֹ.
אָמַר לוֹ רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר: מָה זֶה יְהוֹשֻׁעַ? אָנוּ יוֹשְׁבִין וְרַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל בְּרִיבִּי עוֹמֵד וּמַשְׁקֶה עָלֵינוּ?!
אֲמַר לֵיהּ: מָצִינוּ גָּדוֹל מִמֶּנּוּ שֶׁשִּׁמֵּשׁ, אַבְרָהָם גָּדוֹל מִמֶּנּוּ – וְשִׁמֵּשׁ. אַבְרָהָם גְּדוֹל הַדּוֹר הָיָה, וְכָתוּב בּוֹ: ״וְהוּא עָמַד עֲלֵיהֶם״. וְשֶׁמָּא תֹּאמְרוּ: כְּמַלְאֲכֵי הַשָּׁרֵת נִדְמוּ לוֹ – לֹא נִדְמוּ לוֹ אֶלָּא לְעַרְבִיִּים. וְאָנוּ, לֹא יְהֵא רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל בְּרִיבִּי עוֹמֵד וּמַשְׁקֶה עָלֵינוּ?!
אָמַר לָהֶם רַבִּי צָדוֹק: עַד מָתַי אַתֶּם מַנִּיחִים כְּבוֹדוֹ שֶׁל מָקוֹם וְאַתֶּם עוֹסְקִים בִּכְבוֹד הַבְּרִיּוֹת? הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא מֵשִׁיב רוּחוֹת, וּמַעֲלֶה נְשִׂיאִים, וּמוֹרִיד מָטָר, וּמַצְמִיחַ אֲדָמָה, וְעוֹרֵךְ שׁוּלְחָן לִפְנֵי כׇּל אֶחָד וְאֶחָד, וְאָנוּ לֹא יְהֵא רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל בְּרִיבִּי עוֹמֵד וּמַשְׁקֶה עָלֵינוּ?
There was an incident involving Rabbi Eliezer and Rabbi Yehoshua and Rabbi Tzadok, who were reclining at the wedding of Rabban Gamliel’s son. And Rabban Gamliel, who was Nasi of the Sanhedrin at the time, was standing over them and serving them drinks.
He gave the cup to Rabbi Eliezer and he would not accept it; he gave it to Rabbi Yehoshua and he accepted it.
Rabbi Eliezer said to him: What is this, Yehoshua? We sit and the esteemed Rabban Gamliel stands over us and serves us drinks?
Rabbi Yehoshua said to him: We found one greater than him who served his guests, as our forefather Abraham was greater than him and he served his guests. Abraham was the greatest man of his generation and it is written about him: “And he stood over them under the tree, and they ate” (Genesis 18:8). And lest you say: His guests appeared to him as ministering angels, and that is why he honored them, in fact they appeared to him only as Arabs. And if so, should not the esteemed Rabban Gamliel stand over us and serve us drinks?
Rabbi Tzadok said to them: For how long will you ignore the honor due to the Omnipresent, and deal with the honor of people? You could cite a proof from God Himself. After all, the Holy One, Blessed be He, makes the winds blow, and raises the clouds, and brings the rain, and causes the earth to sprout, and sets a table before each and every creature. And should not the esteemed Rabban Gamliel stand over us and serve us drinks?
It was a tremendous sight, something remarkable to witness: וְהוּא יֹשֵׁב פֶּתַח הָאֹהֶל כְּחֹם הַיּוֹם – “Avraham was sitting at the entrance of the tent in the heat of the day” (Bereishis 18:1). The possuk here is relating to us about an extraordinarily hot day in Eretz Cana’an, and Avraham Avinu, a ninety-nine year old man recovering from a bris milah, is sitting near the door of his tent waiting; he’s bandaging his wound and he’s looking out for wayfarers who may be in need of some shade or a meal.
Now, there’s no doubt that had we been standing there watching Avraham we would have considered his actions excessive – and I use the word excessive in deference to our own honor. Chesed is wonderful, we say, but to be so wild, so extreme about it?! It seems to be too much.
Now, such a madreigah, such a level of service of Hashem, doesn’t grow on its own. It was only after many years of thought that Avraham arrived at such a level of avodas Hashem. Avraham Avinu was a great student of nature. He studied everything! All of the details of Creation that we take for granted, everything that we ignore, Avraham thought about.
As Avraham made his way in this world, he took notice of the endless variety of tastes available to mankind. Avraham knew that man could exist quite well without pepper, ginger and cinnamon. “Why then,” asked Avraham, “did Hashem plant in His world cloves, and saffron, and sage, and mustard and all the multitude of spices? It’s seems so superfluous; we could do just fine without the endless variety.”
Now, I know that when I say these words it doesn’t register in our minds; it seems like an exaggeration. And that’s because we don’t spend time thinking like Avraham did. We almost never make time to think about the chesed Hashem that is so abundant in His creation. But Avraham was a seeker, a giant thinker, and when he looked around at Hashem’s world he saw a world of kindliness; he saw chesed everywhere. Every detail he observed pointed in one direction: Not only is there a Creator, but that the Creator is a Chafeitz Chesed whose sole intention is to bestow happiness on Mankind.
“Even the colors are a chesed,” thought Avraham. “What was the Creator’s purpose in making apples red?” If Hashem had made apples the same bland color as potatoes, people would still eat them. What can you do if you have nothing better to eat? A bland colored apple can also taste sweet. Do oranges have to become a golden yellow? Why can’t they remain colorless?”
Part II. Emulating Hashem
Now, when Avraham recognized this, he came to a life-changing conclusion: “Everyone knows,” said Avraham, “That Hakodosh Boruch Hu is יֹשֵׁב בְּסֵתֶר – He sits in concealment (Tehillim 91:1). That means that He doesn’t show Mankind anything of Himself; He’s entirely invisible. “But,” said Abraham, “There’s one thing that He does show of Himself – He shows us His chesed! That’s what we see of Him. Creation is filled with an endless list of useful and pleasurable objects and processes that fill our lives with all forms of enjoyment.”
“At least one thing I know about Hashem,” said Avraham, “That He desires kindliness, כִּי חָפֵץ חֶסֶד הוּא (Michah 7:18). And that’s what Avraham came along and taught the world: “The ways of Hakodosh Boruch Hu are not hidden. It’s no secret; they are open in the world. On all sides you can see the great principle that He is a Chafeitz Chesed. There is nothing in the world that is more conspicuous than this demonstration, that Hashem wishes to do kindness to mankind.” And therefore Avraham saw that the most prominent attribute of Hashem is that He’s a אֵ-ל חֶסֶד, He’s a G-d of kindliness.
Avraham saw that Hashem had created trees so to provide food and shade for mankind, so he got busy planting trees. וַיִּטַּע אֶשֶׁל בִּבְאֵר שָׁבַע – He planted an orchard in Be’er Sheva and invited the guests to enjoy the chesed (Vayera 21:33). And when Avraham drank a refreshing cup of water, he thought about the chesed Hashem and he looked to do that chesed with others as well. יֻקַּח נָא מְעַט מַיִם וְרַחֲצוּ רַגְלֵיכֶם – Take some water, he told all of his guests, and wash yourselves off and refresh yourselves with a cup of water.
He saw that the trunk of a tree was a chesed Hashem; a place to lean back and rest one’s weary body, and so he offered his tree as a place to rest: וְהִשָּׁעֲנוּ תַּחַת הָעֵץ – Please rest here under the tree, he said (ibid. 18:3). And because Hashem was giving the world bread and butter and milk and meat, so Avraham didn’t only lend his visitors the real estate under his trees. וְאֶקְחָה פַת לֶחֶם וְסַעֲדוּ לִבְּכֶם — “Lean back and relax while I bring you some food to eat,” he said, and he got busy feeding his guests.
When Avraham was encouraged by a comfortable breeze, a nice spring day, so he said, “That’s a lesson from Hashem.” You know, a nice breeze is like a Tosfos; it’s teaching you something. And Avraham didn’t skip over that Tosfos. He said, “I’m also going to be a me’odeid anavim. I’m going to encourage people, and make them feel good, make them happy, like Hashem does.” Wherever Avraham was, it was oz v’chedvah, encouragement and simchah, just like b’mkomo, in the place of Hashem.
