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Integrity / Gold Within and Without
Steve Jobs, Walter Isaacson
[Steve Jobs] recalled a lesson that his father implanted deeply in him. It was important, his father said, to craft the backs of cabinets and fences properly even though they were hidden. “He loved doing things right. He even cared about the look of the parts you couldn’t see."
רַב אָשֵׁי אָמַר: לְעוֹלָם לִכְלֵי חֶרֶס דָּמוּ, וּדְקָא קַשְׁיָא לָךְ לָא לִיטַּמּוּ מִגַּבָּן? — הוֹאִיל וְנִרְאֶה תּוֹכוֹ כְּבָרוֹ.
Rav Ashi said: There was never a need to equate glass vessels and metal vessels. Actually, glass vessels are likened to earthenware vessels in every sense. And that which was difficult for you, that if so, glass vessels, like other earthenware vessels, should not become impure from contact of their outer side with a source of ritual impurity; since in glass vessels its inner side looks like its outer side, the legal status of the outer side was equated with that of the inner side, as there is no visible separation between them.

Among the Rabbis, there was debate about how to understand and treat vessels made of different materials. Metal was relatively simple to understand in terms of how it pick ups ritual impurity, becomes unfit for use, and how to kasher it for use. Earthenware was relatively simple as well, but glass was more difficult to come to terms with. Here was have some discussion about how to understand glass vessels.

When earthenware becomes ritually impure on the outside, it does not affect the interior of the vessel. But glass vessels are different. Since glass is generally thinner and transparent or translucent, its exterior and interior always have the same status. And since glass is impervious to ritual impurity, there is no concern about it in general. And the same is true for the kashrut of glass. Glass vessels are impervious to become milk or meat, and retain their pareve status.

This discussion gives rise to the phrase: The inside is like the outside. This later becomes a trait that gets applied to people when speaking about their integrity. Is someone's inside like their outside? Are the same on the inside as we are on the outside? What would that look like?

In the movie Liar, Liar, starring Jim Carrey, he plays a lawyer who says one thing and then does another - constantly, even to his own child, who makes a wish that for one day, her father would only be able to speak the absolute truth, and nothing but. Her wish makes him completely transparent (like glass) for one day. It does not go well. Imagine if we said everything that entered into our mind unfiltered! How do we balance our inner thoughts, ideas, desires with how we externalize those same things? Does filtering some of those things mean we have less integrity? Are we supposed to train our minds to only have appropriate thoughts, ideas and desires? How close should our inner and outer lives be?

The Torah's Model for The Inside is Like the Outside (Tokho K'voro)

(י) וְעָשׂ֥וּ אֲר֖וֹן עֲצֵ֣י שִׁטִּ֑ים אַמָּתַ֨יִם וָחֵ֜צִי אׇרְכּ֗וֹ וְאַמָּ֤ה וָחֵ֙צִי֙ רׇחְבּ֔וֹ וְאַמָּ֥ה וָחֵ֖צִי קֹמָתֽוֹ׃ (יא) וְצִפִּיתָ֤ אֹתוֹ֙ זָהָ֣ב טָה֔וֹר מִבַּ֥יִת וּמִח֖וּץ תְּצַפֶּ֑נּוּ וְעָשִׂ֧יתָ עָלָ֛יו זֵ֥ר זָהָ֖ב סָבִֽיב׃

(10) They shall make an ark of acacia wood, two and a half cubits long, a cubit and a half wide, and a cubit and a half high. (11) Overlay it with pure gold — overlay it inside and out — and make upon it a gold molding round about.

What does the Aron look like?

  • Rectangular box
  • Gold interior
  • Gold exterior
  • Might be upright or laying down; different artists depict that differently.

What is strange about this construction?

  • Once the tablets are deposited, and the cover put on, no one will ever see the interior of the Aron again, so why line it with gold? What's the purpose?
Rava combines the concept Tokho K'voro with the Aron
״מִבַּיִת וּמִחוּץ תְּצַפֶּנּוּ״. אָמַר רָבָא: כׇּל תַּלְמִיד חָכָם שֶׁאֵין תּוֹכוֹ כְּבָרוֹ — אֵינוֹ תַּלְמִיד חָכָם.

The verse states concerning the Ark: “From within and from without you shall cover it” (Exodus 25:11).

Rava said: This alludes to the idea that any Torah scholar whose inside is not like his outside, i.e., whose outward expression of righteousness is insincere, is not to be considered a Torah scholar.

Is this a reasonable standard for rabbis? clergy? leadership in general?

Why or why not?

How much latitude is there?

Who measure this?

Commentaries on this: It's about

Saying that one is in Awe of God (God-Fearing), but not really.

Doing Torah study for it's own sake and Not for pay;

Not the interior and exterior being the same, but it's about saying one thing and then doing another, saying one thing in public, and then in secret doing something else.

תָּנָא אוֹתוֹ הַיּוֹם, סִלְּקוּהוּ לְשׁוֹמֵר הַפֶּתַח וְנִתְּנָה לָהֶם רְשׁוּת לַתַּלְמִידִים לִיכָּנֵס. שֶׁהָיָה רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל מַכְרִיז וְאוֹמֵר: כׇּל תַּלְמִיד שֶׁאֵין תּוֹכוֹ כְּבָרוֹ, לֹא יִכָּנֵס לְבֵית הַמִּדְרָשׁ.
It was taught: On that day that they removed Rabban Gamliel from his position and appointed Rabbi Elazar ben Azarya in his place, there was also a fundamental change in the general approach of the study hall as they dismissed the guard at the door and permission was granted to the students to enter. Instead of Rabban Gamliel’s selective approach that asserted that the students must be screened before accepting them into the study hall, the new approach asserted that anyone who seeks to study should be given opportunity to do so. As Rabban Gamliel would proclaim and say: Any student whose inside, his thoughts and feelings, are not like his outside, i.e., his conduct and his character traits are lacking, will not enter the study hall.

Raanan Gamliel conceives of it this way.

Is this a positive or negative thing to make this a criteria for admissions to the study hall of the rabbis?

What is the upside?

What is the downside?

ההוא יומא אתוספו כמה ספסלי א"ר יוחנן פליגי בה אבא יוסף בן דוסתאי ורבנן חד אמר אתוספו ארבע מאה ספסלי וחד אמר שבע מאה ספסלי הוה קא חלשא דעתיה דר"ג אמר דלמא ח"ו מנעתי תורה מישראל אחזו ליה בחלמיה חצבי חיורי דמליין קטמא ולא היא ההיא ליתובי דעתיה הוא דאחזו ליה
The Gemara relates: On that day several benches were added to the study hall to accommodate the numerous students. Rabbi Yoḥanan said: Abba Yosef ben Dostai and the Rabbis disputed this matter. One said: Four hundred benches were added to the study hall. And one said: Seven hundred benches were added to the study hall. When he saw the tremendous growth in the number of students, Rabban Gamliel was disheartened. He said: Perhaps, Heaven forbid, I prevented Israel from engaging in Torah study. They showed him in his dream white jugs filled with ashes alluding to the fact that the additional students were worthless idlers. The Gemara comments: That is not the case, but that dream was shown to him to ease his mind so that he would not feel bad.
וצפית אותו זהב טהור מבית ומחוץ תצפנו. דרשו רז"ל מכאן לתלמיד חכם שיהיה תוכו כברו כשם שהיה הארון שהיה זהב מבפנים ומבחוץ, ולזה רמז הכתוב באמרו (איוב כ״ט:י״ד) צדק לבשתי וילבשני פירוש מבפנים ומבחוץ. ודרשו רז"ל למה נמשלו דברי תורה לזכוכית שנאמר (שם כ"ח) לא יערכנה זהב וזכוכית, לומר לך מה זכוכית זך ומראה לך כל מה שבתוכו כך תלמיד חכם ראוי שיהיה תוכו כברו.

וצפית אותו זהב טהור מבית ומחוץ תצפנו, “you are to overlay it with pure gold, from the inside and the outside you are to overlay it.”

This verse is used by our sages (Yuma 72) to demand that Torah scholars must be able to demonstrate that they practice what they preach. They base this on the Ark which was gold on the inside as well as on the outside. Although no one actually saw the inside, it had to correspond to its exterior. Another verse which alludes to this subject is Job 29,14: “I clothed myself in righteousness and it robed me; Justice was my cloak and turban.”

The repetition in this verse means that one’s inside must match the image one creates for oneself on the outside.

Our sages add further on this subject: “why were the words of Torah compared to glass?, i.e. (Job, 28,17) “gold or glass cannot match its value?” Answer: just as glass is transparent and allows you to see not only the outside but also the interior, so bearers of Torah must be able to be equally transparent, not hiding character weakness not visible to their students or to their peers.

אָסוּר לָאָדָם לְהַנְהִיג עַצְמוֹ בְּדִבְרֵי חֲלָקוֹת וּפִתּוּי. וְלֹא יִהְיֶה אֶחָד בַּפֶּה וְאֶחָד בַּלֵּב אֶלָּא תּוֹכוֹ כְּבָרוֹ וְהָעִנְיָן שֶׁבַּלֵּב הוּא הַדָּבָר שֶׁבַּפֶּה. וְאָסוּר לִגְנֹב דַּעַת הַבְּרִיּוֹת וַאֲפִלּוּ דַּעַת הַנָּכְרִי. כֵּיצַד. לֹא יִמְכֹּר לְנָכְרִי בְּשַׂר נְבֵלָה בִּמְקוֹם בְּשַׂר שְׁחוּטָה. וְלֹא מִנְעָל שֶׁל מֵתָה בִּמְקוֹם מִנְעָל שֶׁל שְׁחוּטָה. וְלֹא יְסַרְהֵב בַּחֲבֵרוֹ שֶׁיֹּאכַל אֶצְלוֹ וְהוּא יוֹדֵעַ שֶׁאֵינוֹ אוֹכֵל. וְלֹא יַרְבֶּה לוֹ בְּתִקְרֹבֶת וְהוּא יוֹדֵעַ שֶׁאֵינוֹ מְקַבֵּל. וְלֹא יִפְתַּח לוֹ חֲבִיּוֹת שֶׁהוּא צָרִיךְ לְפָתְחָן לְמָכְרָן כְּדֵי לְפַתּוֹתוֹ שֶׁבִּשְׁבִיל כְּבוֹדוֹ פָּתַח וְכֵן כָּל כַּיּוֹצֵא בּוֹ. וַאֲפִלּוּ מִלָּה אַחַת שֶׁל פִּתּוּי וְשֶׁל גְּנֵבַת דַּעַת אָסוּר, אֶלָּא שְׂפַת אֱמֶת וְרוּחַ נָכוֹן וְלֵב טָהוֹר מִכָּל עָמָל וְהַוּוֹת:

A person is forbidden to act in a smooth-tongued and luring manner. He should not speak one thing outwardly and think otherwise in his heart. Rather, his inner self should be like the self which he shows to the world. What he feels in his heart should be the same as the words on his lips.

It is forbidden to deceive people, even a non-Jew. For example, one should not sell a gentile the meat of an animal which has not been ritually slaughtered as if it were ritually slaughtered meat, nor a shoe made from the hide of an animal which has died of natural causes as if it were made of the hide of a slaughtered animal. One should not press his colleague to share a meal with him when he knows that his colleague will not accept the invitation, nor should he press presents upon him when he knows that his colleague will not accept them. He should not open casks supposedly for his colleague which he must open for sale, in order to deceive him into thinking that they have been opened in his honor. The same applies with all matters of this sort.

It is forbidden to utter a single word of deception or fraud. Rather, one should have only truthful speech, a proper spirit and a heart pure from all deceit and trickery.

וצריך שתדע כי הכונה והתועלת במצות הלבבות הם שיהיו גלויינו וצפונינו שוים ושקולים בעבודת השם עד שתהיה עדות הלב והלשון והאברים שוה ויצדיק כל אחר מהם את חבירו ויעיד לו ולא יחלוק עליו ולא יסתור דבריו והוא אשר יקראהו הכתוב תמים באמרו (דברים יח) תמים תהיה עם ה׳ ‎‎אלהיך ואמר (בראשית ו) תמים היה בדורותיו ואמר (תהלים טו) הולך תמים ופועל צדק ודובר אמת בלבבו ואמר (שם קא) אשכילה בדרך תמים מתי תבא אלי אתהלך בתם לבבי בקרב ביתי

You should realize that the aim and value of the duties of the heart is that our exterior and interior be equal and consistent in the service of God, so that the testimony of the heart, tongue, and limbs be alike, and that they support and confirm each other instead of differing and contradicting each other. This is what Scripture calls "tamim" (innocent/perfect), in saying: "You shall be perfect with the Eternal your God" (Deut. 18:13), and "Noah was a righteous man and perfect in his generations" (Gen. 6:9), and "the one who walks uprightly, and works righteousness, and speaks the truth in their heart" (Ps. 15:2), and "I will give heed unto the way of integrity..I will walk within my house with a perfect heart" (Ps. 101:2).

ואמר במי שאין תוכו כברו (מלכים א יא) ולא היה לבבו שלם עם ה׳ ‎‎אלהיו ואמר (תהלים עח) ויפתוהו בפיהם ובלשונם יכזבו לו ולבם לא נכון עמו וגו'.

On the other hand, one whose inner [being] is not consistent with his outer [life] is condemned by Scripture, as written: "the one whose heart was not whole with the Eternal, their God" (Kings 11:4), and "but they flatter God with their mouths and lied with their tongues. For their heart was not steadfast with God" (Ps. 78:36).

ומן הידוע שכל מי שחולק קצתו על קצתו ומכזיב קצתו את קצתו בדבור או במעשה אין מאמינים בצדקו ואין הנפשות מתישבות על אמיתו וכן אם יחלוק גלויינו על נסתרינו וכוונת לבבנו על דבורנו ותנועת אברינו על מצפונינו לא תהיה עבודתנו לאלוקינו שלמה מפני שאינו מקבל עבודה מזוייפת כמו שנאמר (ישעיה א) לא אוכל און ועצרה ואמר (שם סא) כי אני ה׳ ‎‎אוהב משפט שונא גזל בעולה ואמר (מלאכי א) וכי תגישון עור לזבוח אין רע וגו׳ ‎‎ואמר (שמואל א ט״ו:כ״ב) הנה שמוע מזבח טוב וגו׳

It is well known, that whoever exhibits conflicting or contradictory behavior in word or deed - people do not believe in his integrity and have no confidence in his truthfulness.

Likewise, if our exterior conflicts with our interior, if our heart's intent conflicts with our words, if our physical activities are not consistent with the convictions of our soul - our service to our G-d will not be whole, for God will not accept from us fraudulent service, as written "I cannot [bear] iniquity with assembly" (Isaiah 1:13), and "For I am the Eternal, Who loves justice, hates robbery in a burnt offering" (Isaiah 61:8), and "if you offer a blind [animal] for sacrifice, is it not evil? And if you offer the lame and the sick, is it not evil? Bring it now to your governor. Will he accept you, or lift up your face" (Malachi 1:8), and "Behold, obedience is better than a animal-offering; to hearken (is better) than the fat of rams" (Samuel 15:22).