The Magic of Kol Nidrei, by Bruce Siegel
I look at the people milling around the sanctuary and know that finally, I
understand the magic of Kol Nidrei. All these years, the answer was around me
and I didn’t see it.
It is the people. The people who every year on Yom Kippur fill the
synagogues of the world to hear a simple, sad melody sung in a language most
of them hardly know. Still they come, often not knowing why. Not
understanding what draws them. Knowing only that this is what Jews do.
Religious Jews and Jews who don’t believe. Jews who come to synagogue
every week, and Jews who come but once a year. Jews for whom the holidays
are a joy, and Jews for whom the holidays are a mystery.
מחזור אשכנז ליום כיפור, כל נדרי
בִּישִׁיבָה שֶׁל מַֽעְלָה וּבִישִׁיבָה שֶׁל
מַֽטָּה. עַל דַּֽעַת הַמָּקוֹם וְעַל דַּֽעַת
הַקָּהָל. אָֽנוּ מַתִּירִין לְהִתְפַּלֵּל עִם
הָעֲבַרְיָנִים:
Machzor Yom Kippur Ashkenaz, Kol
Nidrei
In a convocation of the heavenly
court, and a convocation of the
lower court, with the consent of the
Almighty, and consent of this
congregation, we hereby grant
permission to pray with transgressors.
כריתות ו׳ ב:י״ח
א"ר חנא בר בזנא א"ר שמעון חסידא
כל תענית שאין בה מפושעי ישראל
אינה תענית שהרי חלבנה ריחה רע
ומנאה הכתוב עם סממני קטרת אביי
אמר מהכא (עמוס ט, ו) ואגודתו על
ארץ יסדה:
Keritot 6b:18
Rav Ḥana bar Bizna says that
Rabbi Shimon Ḥasida says: Any
fast that does not include the
participation of some of the sinners
of the Jewish people is not a fast,
as the smell of galbanum is foul
and yet the verse lists it with the
ingredients of the incense. Abaye
says that this is derived from here:
“It is He Who builds His upper
chambers in the heavens and has
established His bundle on the
earth” (Amos 9:6), i.e., when the
people are united as a bundle,
including their sinners, they are
established upon the earth.
The Observant Life, by Martin Cohen
One of the most fascinating parts of the Kol Nidrei service is the section at the
beginning, before the actual Kol Nidrei prayer is chanted, when the
congregation grants itself permission to worship with sinners. Some have
explained this strange declaration with reference to people who were forced to
take blasphemous vows: as these “sinners” sought absolution from their sinful
oaths on Yom Kippur, the community expressed its understanding of their
plight and affirmed their right to prayer together with other members of the
community. Today these lines resonate with additional meaning. The
synagogue is called a “sacred community” — a k’hillah k’doshah. As a result,
people sometimes do not understand why congregations are not more
particular about whom they allow to join. Why should someone who has
been convicted of embezzlement, or who is known to have been unfaithful to
his or her spouse, be accepted into a community that claims to be striving for
holiness? Indeed, why do people who do not follow the laws of kashrut strictly
or who do not strictly embrace the laws of Shabbat have a place in the
sanctuary, and why should such people be given honors and even called to the
Torah? The answer can be found in the humble declaration that it is
permitted, indeed expected to pray with “sinners”. Perfection is not a
prerequisite of joining a holy community. We are all imperfect, and the
synagogue, therefore, is at best a collection of people who are “works in
progress.” What unites the faithful is not what they have accomplished, but
what they are striving to accomplish. We join together on Yom Kippur in
recognition of the fact that we we want to be better, that we need to be better,
and that we understand that, in accepting imperfections in others, we can
hope that they will in turn accept and forgive our own imperfections.
Dr. Annette Boeckler, "The Magic of the Moment: Kol Nidre in
Progressive Judaism," In All These Vows (2011)
For many Jews, Kol Nidre provides the sound of atonement that is the core
experience of Yom Kippur and that could not otherwise be put adequately into
words. Nevertheless, progressive Judaism, which began in nineteenth-century
Germany, started overwhelmingly without Kol Nidre. As we shall see, the tune
remained, but without the familiar words, which were reintroduced only with
the American prayer book Gates of Repentance in 1978.
Classical Reform of the nineteenth and early twentieth century sought to
justify Judaism to modern Jews and to the society in which they lived. It was
deemed important to say only those prayers that could be recited honestly,
without offending the enlightened, rational, scientific mind. The entire notion
of annulling vows was against modern ethical consciousness.