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The Joseph-Jacob reunion
וַיֶּאְסֹ֤ר יוֹסֵף֙ מֶרְכַּבְתּ֔וֹ וַיַּ֛עַל לִקְרַֽאת־יִשְׂרָאֵ֥ל אָבִ֖יו גֹּ֑שְׁנָה וַיֵּרָ֣א אֵלָ֗יו וַיִּפֹּל֙ עַל־צַוָּארָ֔יו וַיֵּ֥בְךְּ עַל־צַוָּארָ֖יו עֽוֹד׃

Joseph ordered his chariot and went to Goshen to meet his father Israel; he presented himself to him and, embracing him around the neck, he wept on his neck a good while.

Notice that the pronouns are ambiguous -- who wept on whose neck?

ויבך על צואריו עוד. לְשׁוֹן הַרְבּוֹת בְּכִיָּה .... אַף כָּאן הִרְבָּה וְהוֹסִיף בִּבְכִי יוֹתֵר עַל הָרָגִיל; אֲבָל יַעֲקֹב לֹא נָפַל עַל צַוְּארֵי יוֹסֵף וְלֹא נְשָׁקוֹ, וְאָמְרוּ רַבּוֹתֵינוּ, שֶׁהָיָה קוֹרֵא אֶת שְׁמַע:

ויבך על צואריו עוד AND WEPT ON HIS NECK A GOOD WHILE — The phrase ויבך עוד signifies weeping copiously. ... Here, he wept greatly and continuously — more than is usual. Jacob, however, did not fall upon Joseph’s neck nor did he kiss him. Our Rabbis say: the reason was that he was reciting the Shema.

Why would Jacob recite the Shema at this moment?

וירא אליו ... כי איננו דרך כבוד שיפול יוסף על צוארי אביו אבל שישתחוה לו או שינשק ידיו ככתוב (בראשית מ״ח:י״ב) ויוצא יוסף אותם מעם ברכיו וישתחו לאפיו ...

לפיכך הזכיר הכתוב כי כאשר נתראה אל אביו שהביט בו והכירו נפל אביו על צוארו ובכה עליו עוד כאשר יבכה עליו תמיד עד היום הזה כשלא ראהו ואחר כך אמר אמותה הפעם אחרי ראותי את פניך ודבר ידוע הוא מי דמעתו מצויה אם האב הזקן המוצא את בנו חי לאחר היאוש והאבל או הבן הבכור המולך.

AND HE APPEARED BEFORE HIM. ... it is not respectful for Joseph to fall upon his father’s neck. He should rather bow before him or kiss his hands, as it is written, And Joseph brought them out from between his knees, and he fell down on his face. ...

Therefore Scripture mentioned that when he appeared before his father, who stared at him and finally recognized him, his father fell on his neck and cried again over him, even as he had continually cried over him to this day when he had not seen him after his disappearance, and then Jacob said, Now let me die, since I have seen thy face. It is a known matter as to whose tears are more constant: that of an old father who finds his son alive after having despaired of him and having mourned for him, or that of a grown-up son who reigns.

What is Ramban's motivation for identifying the cryer as Jacob?