Art Green, A Guide to the Zohar

The sefira of hod molds meaningful acceptance. Hod opens us up to the opportunity that adversity provides. It is not to be equated with passivity.
Do we really know what is around the corner? Can we really decide in advance whether an occurrence is going to bring benefit or cause harm? Our only realistic alternative is to remain curious and open, to accept the moment as it arises and follow its development. Adopting a stance of natural curiosity and visualizing a positive outcome raises our tolerance for discomfort. The basis of hod allows the creation of a neutral and accepting stance and the manifestation of a more positive disposition.
To surrender to life's exigencies does not mean that one meekly turns the other cheek. On the contrary, it means that we engage in life fully, that we ride the rhythms of life and sing to the cosmic winds. Choosing our battles carefully enables us to see the forest as well as the trees. We become open to the signposts that direct our own tentative steps.
The secret of the sefira of hod lies in acceptance. It takes a heartfelt thank-you and surrender to the Other to activate submission to the greater wisdom of the Creator.
It also takes courage.
אמרו שנים עשר אלף זוגים תלמידים היו לו לרבי עקיבא מגבת עד אנטיפרס וכולן מתו בפרק אחד מפני שלא נהגו כבוד זה לזה
Rabbi Akiva had twelve thousand pairs of students in an area of land that stretched from Gevat to Antipatris in Judea, and they all died in one period of time, because they did not treat each other with respect.
(א) נוֹהֲגִים שֶׁלֹּא לִשָּׂא אִשָּׁה בֵּין פֶּסַח לַעֲצֶרֶת עַד ל''ג לָעֹמֶר, מִפְּנֵי שֶׁבְּאוֹתוֹ זְמַן מֵתוּ תַּלְמִידֵי רַבִּי עֲקִיבָא;
(1) It is customary not to get married between Pesach and Shavuot, until Lag BaOmer (the 33rd day), because during that time, the students of Rabbi Akiva died.
בזמן הזה בענין ההולכים על הקבר רשב"י ור"א בנו במירון בל"ג בעומר... והטעם שמת רשב"י ביום ל"ג בעומר, כי הוא מתלמידי רבי עקיבא הנ"ל, שמתו בספירת העומר הנ"ל:
He [the Arizal] would go to the grave of Rashbi and Rabbi Eliezer his son in Meron on Lag B'Omer... And the reason for this is that Rashbi died on Lag B'Omer because he was one of the students of Rabbi Akiva who died during the counting of the Omer.
Yerachmiel Yisrael Yitzchak of Aleksander (1853–1910) translation by Professor Ariel Evan Mayse
I heard the following about Lag BaOmer from our sainted master and teacher, the Rebbe of Biala (may his memory be a blessing). That day represents Hod she-beHod, and repairing the quality of Hod [within oneself and the Godhead] means becoming aware [of its source], uplifting and returning all beauty to God. Know that “beauty and majesty are His” (Ps. 96:6)—all of one’s beauty really comes from Him. Thus, it becomes impossible to feel hatred or jealousy for a friend who has been granted beauty or majesty—as not you!— since all of this comes from God.
The Talmud explains that the disciples of Rabbi Akiva [died because] they did not show honor to one another; their eyes were cast jealously upon each other. Clearly, they had damaged the quality of Hod, as we have mentioned. When they arrived at Lag BaOmer, at Hod she-beHod—the innermost soul of beauty—they repaired this quality. Therefore, they stopped dying. [This is] because the light of the giving of the Torah begins to shine on Lag BaOmer. . . . Israel attained this through [their sense of solidarity:] “and Israel encamped (va-yichan) there” (Ex. 19:2)—that is, each individual found favor (hen) in his friends’ eyes. This is how they became as a “single person, with a single heart.” [Israel] came to know that favor (hen), beauty and majesty belong to God, and therefore each person saw all the others with eyes of grace, and not the opposite, heaven forbid! When this light [later] appeared to the disciples of Rabbi Akiva, they too repaired the quality of Hod.
[My teacher] revealed even more about this idea. It is taught in the name of the Maggid [of Kozhenits] that the world of chaos (olam ha-tohu) is the world of individuated points (nekudot) that do not touch one another, and that the world of healing (olam ha-tikkun) is that of [interwoven] colors (gavvan). My master [the Rebbe of Biala] said as follows. This matter is one of the supernal secrets, but each and every person can take some lesson or instruction regarding divine service from it. See to it that you are in the world of healing and not the world of chaos. Become connected to and share friendship with your fellows. How so? Through repairing the quality of Hod. Let each and every person find favor in your eyes, and see their virtues rather than their faults. Thus far are his holy words, more precious indeed than pearls.
And his holy teaching explains what we know. [The sefirot] Netzach and Hod are called “teachers of God.” The students of God’s Torah must repair the attribute of Hod, understanding that it all comes from the One. Netzach and Hod are also called “two halves of the body,” and this, too, alludes to the love and affection that must exist between scholars. They must know that they depend upon one another, and thus learn from and treat each other with honor. . . . If they study the holy Torah with arrogance and silly vanity, they will damage the font of life—the numerical value of “wisdom” (hokhmah) is [the same as] “the life” (ha-hayim). The source of life was damaged, God forbid, when the disciples of Rabbi Akiva did not treat each other with honor. And when Lag BaOmer, Hod she-beHod, arrived . . . the light of the King of Life shone upon them, and the spirit of repentance was aroused. “And understanding with the heart, return, and be healed” (Isa. 6:10)—they drew healing into the world, and through repentance they became humble before one other. .
The Jewish people have a custom to take up bows (keshet) and arrows during these days. The idea is as follows. We know that the farther you draw back the bowstring toward the earth, the farther the arrow will then shoot into the heavens. The same is true of tzaddikim, of righteous individuals. The more humble they become, the more exalted and uplifted are the spiritual unifications (yichudim) they can accomplish, and the higher their prayers will ascend. This is why such actions are referred to as a bow. When he was leaving this world, Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai performed a great unification, something that could only have been done in a state of total self-nullification. He was as nothing, like the dust, truly. . . . Therefore, we hold a festival on the anniversary of his death, something not done on the anniversary of the death of any other sage. [We do this because] at the time of his death, he revealed exalted mysteries and performed an awesome and tremendous unification, which he could not do when living. Now, because of our abundant sins, we cannot do such things. We need [to arouse] compassion through prayer. [It is written] “which I wrested from the Amorites with my sword and bow” (Gen. 48:22)—[and the Aramaic translation renders it] with “my prayer and supplication.” . . . Previously the tzaddikim protected the generation, but in the absence of such tzaddikim we must [each] struggle through prayer and petition.

(6) Beauty (Hod) and splendor are before Her; strength and harmony (Tiferet) are in Her holy place.
לְשֵׁם יִחוּד קֻדְשָׁא בְּרִיךְ הוּא וּשְׁכִינְתֵּיהּ בִּדְחִילוּ וּרְחִימוּ לְיַחֵד שֵׁם י"ה בְּו"ה בְּיִחוּדָא שְׁלִים בְּשֵׁם כָּל יִשְׂרָאֵל.
הִנְ֒נִי מוּכָן וּמְזֻמָּן לְקַיֵּם מִצְוַת עֲשֵׂה שֶׁל סְפִירַת הָעֹֽמֶר כְּמוֹ שֶׁכָּתוּב בַּתּוֹרָה. וּסְפַרְתֶּם לָכֶם מִמָּחֳרַת הַשַּׁבָּת מִיּוֹם הֲבִיאֲכֶם אֶת עֹֽמֶר הַתְּ֒נוּפָה שֶֽׁבַע שַׁבָּתוֹת תְּמִימוֹת תִּהְיֶֽינָה: עַד מִמָּחֳרַת הַשַּׁבָּת הַשְּׁ֒בִיעִית תִּסְפְּ֒רוּ חֲמִשִּׁים יוֹם וְהִקְרַבְתֶּם מִנְחָה חֲדָשָׁה לַיהֹוָה:
וִיהִי נֹֽעַם אֲדֹנָי אֱלֹהֵֽינוּ עָלֵֽינוּ וּמַעֲשֵׂה יָדֵֽינוּ כּוֹנְנָה עָלֵֽינוּ וּמַעֲשֵׂה יָדֵֽינוּ כּוֹנְנֵֽהוּ:
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְהֹוָה אֱלֹהֵֽינוּ מֶֽלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם אֲשֶׁר קִדְּ֒שָֽׁנוּ בְּמִצְוֹתָיו וְצִוָּֽנוּ עַל סְפִירַת הָעֹֽמֶר:
33. הַיּוֹם שלושים ושלש יוֹם שֶׁהֵם ארבע שָׁבוּעוֹת וַחֲמִשָּׁה יָמִים בָּעֹֽמֶר:
הוד שבהוד
I am prepared and ready to perform the affirmative command to count the Omer, as is written in the Torah: “And you shall count for yourselves, from the day after the day of rest, from the day you bring the omer as the wave-offering, seven complete weeks shall there be; until the day following the seventh week shall you count fifty days; and you shall bring a new meal-offering unto YHVH.”
May the pleasantness of my Master our God be upon us, and the work of our hands established for us, and the work of our hands—establish it.
Blessed are You, YHVH, our God, Ruler of the universe, Who sanctified us with Her commandments and commanded us to count the Omer.
Today is thirty-three days, which are four weeks and five days of the Omer.
Hod she'b'hod
