אמר רבי יהושע בן לוי אסור לאדם שיהלך ארבע אמות בקומה זקופה שנא' (ישעיהו ו, ג) מלא כל הארץ כבודו רב הונא בריה דרב יהושע לא מסגי ארבע אמות בגילוי הראש אמר שכינה למעלה מראשי
Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi said: It is forbidden for a person to walk four cubits [aprx. 5-6 feet] with an upright posture, which is considered an arrogant manner, as it is stated: “The entire world is full of His glory” (Isaiah 6:3). Rav Huna, son of Rav Yehoshua, would not walk four cubits with an uncovered head. He said: The Divine Presence is above my head.
דאימיה דר"נ בר יצחק אמרי לה כלדאי בריך גנבא הוה לא שבקתיה גלויי רישיה אמרה ליה כסי רישיך כי היכי דתיהוו עלך אימתא דשמיא ובעי רחמי לא הוה ידע אמאי קאמרה ליה יומא חד יתיב קא גריס תותי דיקלא נפל גלימא מעילויה רישיה דלי עיניה חזא לדיקלא אלמיה יצריה סליק פסקיה לקיבורא בשיניה:
Chaldean astrologers told Rav Naḥman bar Yitzḥak’s mother: Your son will be a thief. She did not allow him to uncover his head. She said to her son: Cover your head so that the fear of Heaven will be upon you, and pray for Divine mercy. He did not know why she said this to him. One day he was sitting and studying beneath a palm tree [that did not belong to him], and the cloak fell off of his head. He lifted his eyes and saw the palm tree. He was overcome by impulse and he climbed up and detached a bunch of dates with his teeth.
אמר רב נחמן תיתי לי דקיימית ג' סעודות בשבת אמר רב יהודה תיתי לי דקיימית עיון תפלה אמר רב הונא בריה דרב יהושע תיתי לי דלא סגינא ד' אמות בגילוי הראש אמר רב ששת תיתי לי דקיימית מצות תפילין ואמר ר"נ תיתי לי דקיימית מצות ציצית
Rav Naḥman said: May I receive my reward because I fulfilled eating meals on Shabbat. Rav Yehuda said: May I receive my reward because I fulfilled careful examination of prayer. Rav Huna, son of Rav Yehoshua, said: May I receive my reward because I never walked four cubits with my head uncovered. Rav Sheshet said: May I receive my reward because I fulfilled the mitzvah of tephillin. And Rav Naḥman said: May I receive my reward because I fulfilled the mitzvah of tzitzit.
...אָמַר רַבִּי יִצְחָק מָשָׁל לְמֶלֶךְ שֶׁשָּׁלַח פְּרוֹזְדוֹגְמָא שֶׁלּוֹ לִמְדִינָה, מֶה עָשׂוּ בְּנֵי הַמְדִינָה עָמְדוּ עַל רַגְלֵיהֶם וּפָרְעוּ אֶת רָאשֵׁיהֶם וּקְרָאוּהָ בְּאֵימָה וּבְיִרְאָה בִּרְתֵת וּבְזִיעַ, כָּךְ אָמַר הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא לְיִשְׂרָאֵל הֲדָא פְּרוֹזְדוֹגְמָא דִידִי לֹא הִטְרַחְתִּי עֲלֵיכֶם וְלֹא אָמַרְתִּי אֲלֵיכֶם שֶׁתְּהֵא קוֹרִין קְרִיאַת שְׁמַע לֹא עוֹמְדִין עַל רַגְלֵיכֶם וְלֹא פּוֹרְעִין אֶת רָאשֵׁיכֶם, אֶלָּא (דברים ו, ז): בְּשִׁבְתְּךָ בְּבֵיתֶךָ וּבְלֶכְתְּךָ בַדֶּרֶךְ וּבְשָׁכְבְּךָ וּבְקוּמֶךָ...
Rabbi Yitzchak says: It can be compared to a flesh-and-blood king who sends his charter to the province, what do they do? They stand up, uncover their heads, and read it with fear, awe, trembling, and perspiration. Thus the Holy Blessed One says to Israel: This is my charter, but I won't trouble you too much. I won't say that when you recite the Shema you should do it standing, or with uncovered heads, rather: "When you sit in your house and when you walk in the way, when you lie down and when you rise up" (Deut 6).
(ה) תקון המלבושים כיצד מתקן מלבושיו תחלה ומציין עצמו ומהדר שנאמר השתחוו לה' בהדרת קדש ולא יעמוד בתפלה באפונדתו ולא בראש מגולה ולא ברגלים מגולות אם דרך אנשי המקום שלא יעמדו בפני הגדולים אלא בבתי הרגלים ובכל מקום לא יאחוז תפילין בידו וספר תורה בזרועו ויתפלל מפני שלבו טרוד בהן ולא יאחוז כלים ומעות בידו אבל מתפלל הוא ולולב בידו בימות החג מפני שהוא מצות היום היה משוי על ראשו והגיע זמן תפלה אם היה פחות מארבעה קבין מפשילו לאחוריו ומתפלל בו היה ארבעה קבין מניחו על גבי קרקע ואחר כך יתפלל דרך כל החכמים ותלמידיהם שלא יתפללו אלא כשהן עטופים.
(5) How must one dress [for prayer]? One begins by making himself smart and honourable, as it says "Bow to the Eternal in honourable holiness". One may not stand in prayer in his underwear, and not with a bare head, and not with bare feet - in such a place where one would not stand barefoot before nobility, and would wear shoes. One may not stand holding anything, not tools or money or even Tefillin or a Torah scroll, because they distract one's mind, except on Sukkot when one must hold the Lulav. If one was carrying a load on his head, and the time to pray came, if the load weighs less than 4 kavin it can be draped on one's shoulder, and if it is heavier it should be left on the ground during prayer. The custom of all sages and their disciples is to pray wrapped up.
(ו) צְנִיעוּת גְּדוֹלָה נוֹהֲגִים תַּלְמִידֵי חֲכָמִים בְּעַצְמָן. לֹא יִתְבַּזּוּ וְלֹא יִתְגַּלּוּ רֹאשָׁן וְלֹא גּוּפָן. :
(6) Torah scholars conduct themselves with great modesty. They do not disgrace themselves and do not reveal their heads nor their bodies.
After he has made the woman stand before God, the priest shall bare the woman’s head and place upon her hands the meal offering of remembrance, which is a meal offering of jealousy. And in the priest’s hands shall be the water of bitterness that induces the spell.
(ו) וְאֵלּוּ יוֹצְאוֹת שֶׁלֹּא בִכְתֻבָּה, הָעוֹבֶרֶת עַל דַּת מֹשֶׁה וִיהוּדִית. וְאֵיזוֹ הִיא דַּת מֹשֶׁה, מַאֲכִילָתוֹ שֶׁאֵינוֹ מְעֻשָּׂר, וּמְשַׁמַּשְׁתּוֹ נִדָּה, וְלֹא קוֹצָה לָהּ חַלָּה, וְנוֹדֶרֶת וְאֵינָהּ מְקַיֶּמֶת. וְאֵיזוֹהִי דַת יְהוּדִית, יוֹצְאָה וְרֹאשָׁהּ פָּרוּעַ, וְטוֹוָה בַשּׁוּק, וּמְדַבֶּרֶת עִם כָּל אָדָם. אַבָּא שָׁאוּל אוֹמֵר, אַף הַמְקַלֶּלֶת יוֹלְדָיו בְּפָנָיו. רַבִּי טַרְפוֹן אוֹמֵר, אַף הַקּוֹלָנִית. וְאֵיזוֹ הִיא קוֹלָנִית, לִכְשֶׁהִיא מְדַבֶּרֶת בְּתוֹךְ בֵּיתָהּ וּשְׁכֵנֶיהָ שׁוֹמְעִין קוֹלָהּ:
(6) These leave [their marriage] without their ketubah: A wife who transgresses the law of Moses or Jewish practice. And what is the law of Moses? Feeding her husband with untithed food, having intercourse with him while in the period of her menstruation, not separating dough offering, or making vows and not fulfilling them. And what is Jewish practice? Going out with her head uncovered, spinning wool in the marketplace or conversing with every man. Abba Shaul says: also one who curses her husband’s parents in his presence. Rabbi Tarfon says: also one who has a loud voice. And who is regarded as one who has a loud voice? A woman whose voice can be heard by her neighbors when she speaks inside her house.
The Sages taught in a baraita: Kimchit had seven sons, and they all served in the office of the High Priesthood, as High Priests or as his substitute. The Sages said to her: What good deeds did you perform to merit this? She said to them: In all my days, the beams of my house never saw the braids of my hair. They said to her: Many women did so and did not succeed.
(ב) שֵׂעָר שֶׁל אִשָּׁה שֶׁדַּרְכָּהּ לְכַסוֹת, אָסוּר לִקְרוֹת כְּנֶגְדּוֹ: הַגָּה: אֲפִלּוּ אִשְׁתּוֹ אֲבָל בְּתוּלוֹת שֶׁדַּרְכָּן לֵילֵךְ פְּרוּעוֹת הָרֹאשׁ, מֻתָּר: הַגָּה: וְה''ה הַשְּׂעָרוֹת שֶׁל נָשִׁים שֶׁרְגִילִין לָצֵאת מִחוּץ לְצַמָּתָן (בֵּית יוֹסֵף בְּשֵׁם הָרַשְׁבָּ''א) וְכָל שֶׁכֵּן שְׂעַר נָכְרִית, אֲפִלּוּ דַּרְכָּהּ לְכַסּוֹת (הַגָּהוֹת אַלְפָסִי הַחֲדָשִׁים):
(2) The hair of a woman that it is her practice (lit. way) to cover it, it is forbidden to read [the Shema] in front of it REMA even his wife. But virgins that it is their practice to go with an uncovered head, it is permitted. REMA And so too is the law with the hairs of women that regularly come out of their barriers and certainly foreign (detached) hair even if it is her practice to cover.
Headband Nation
BY ALYX BERNSTEIN
FEBRUARY 03, 2020
Wearing a headband can signal many things, including marriage, modesty, athletics, or fashion. But recently, among a small but growing group of traditional but egalitarian Jewish women, headbands have become a unique way of expressing both their gender and their Judaism.
As more and more women take on the practice, a community has sprung up among what one wearer, Deborah Sacks Mintz, calls the #HeadbandNation. Lilli Shvartsmann, another headband-wearer I spoke with, describes this community as a “sisterhood,” swapping stories of how they took on the practice and recommending places to shop for headbands: “I do feel connected to people that wear headbands, in that I know they’re thinking about the same things I think about, and trying to create a culture of head coverings that’s not just male head coverings,” she said. “We are taking the custom and making it our own.”
https://www.tabletmag.com/sections/belief/articles/headband-nation