Parents feature in Jewish texts in a variety of contexts. The Torah, for example, tells of the patriarchs and matriarchs in the book of Genesis. Rabbinic sources discuss parental responsibilities and obligations of children to their parents.
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Reverence for Parents as a Divine MandateTANAKH
Reverence for Parents as a Divine Mandate
TANAKH
Revering one's parents is not just a social norm but a divine commandment. Leviticus 19:3 commands reverence for one's parents, emphasizing the mutual bond and responsibilities within the family.
Hannah's Prayer and PromiseTANAKH
Hannah's Prayer and Promise
TANAKH
Hannah's intense desire for a child and her willingness to dedicate him to God's service reflect a deep faith and personal sacrifice. The haftarah reading for the first day of Rosh Hashanah recounts Hannah's prayer for a child and the birth of Samuel, paralleling the experiences of other biblical women like Sarah, Rebecca, and Rachel.
Parental Responsibilities in Jewish LawTOSEFTA
Parental Responsibilities in Jewish Law
TOSEFTA
The Tosefta Kiddushin outlines the specific mitzvot (commandments) related to the responsibilities of parents towards their children and vice versa. This early third-century text details the father's obligations to teach his son Torah, a trade, and to marry him off, as well as the practical care duties children have towards their parents.
Haran's Siding with AbrahamMIDRASH
Haran's Siding with Abraham
MIDRASH
The death of Haran, Abraham's brother, highlights the tension between parental influence and individual belief. Bereshit Rabbah, an ancient midrash on the book of Genesis, explores the conflict between Haran and his father Terach.
A Mother's Love and DedicationCOMMENTARY
A Mother's Love and Dedication
COMMENTARY
Moses's mother saw a special quality in her child and took extraordinary measures to ensure his safety, reflecting deep parental love and dedication. Ramban, a medieval Jewish scholar, offers a commentary on Exodus 2:2 that highlights the extraordinary efforts of Moses's mother to protect him.
A Father's Duty at the SederMISHNAH
A Father's Duty at the Seder
MISHNAH
The father's role in teaching his son about the Exodus during the Passover Seder is crucial according to this text, ensuring that even if the son lacks the intelligence to ask questions, the father guides him through the process. The Passover haggadah emphasizes the Jewish tradition of parental responsibility in teaching Torah and Jewish history, particularly during the seder.
The Triad of Perfect FearCHASIDUT
The Triad of Perfect Fear
CHASIDUT
Perfect fear, as Rebbe Nachman of Breslov describes it, is achieved through a triad: fear of Heaven, fear of one's master, and fear of one's parents. The prominent Chasidic master integrates the fear of parents into a broader framework of spiritual and hierarchical reverence.
Favoritism and Family ConflictCOMMENTARY
Favoritism and Family Conflict
COMMENTARY
Jacob's favoritism towards Joseph led to deep-seated jealousy and animosity among his brothers, which had profound consequences for the family. The Tze'enah Ure'enah, a Yiddish commentary on the Torah, delves into the complex dynamics of Jacob's family and the resulting conflict.
The Ultimate Test of FaithSECOND TEMPLE
The Ultimate Test of Faith
SECOND TEMPLE
Abraham's willingness to sacrifice his beloved son Isaac has been interpreted as a demonstration of unwavering faith and obedience to God. Philo of Alexandria, a first-century Jewish philosopher, offers such an interpretation of the Binding of Isaac, emphasizing Abraham's readiness to follow God's command until an angel intervenes.
Miriam's Bold ConfrontationCOMMENTARY
Miriam's Bold Confrontation
COMMENTARY
In the midrashic tradition, Miriam's courage and wisdom in confronting her father, Amram, led to the birth of Moses — a pivotal moment in Jewish history. Dr. Avivah Gottliebb Zornberg's 21st-century portrait of Moses's inner world recounts this narrative, highlighting the resilience and faith of the Israelites during times of oppression.
Choosing Torah Over FamilyREFERENCE
Choosing Torah Over Family
REFERENCE
One rabbinic sage's decision to leave his father's house for Torah study highlights the tension between familial obligations and personal spiritual pursuits. Gershom Bader's biographical account of Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus, a prominent figure of the mishnaic period, illustrates this significant act of devotion to Jewish learning.
The Courage of Moses's MotherJEWISH THOUGHT
The Courage of Moses's Mother
JEWISH THOUGHT
Moses's mother, Yokheved, displayed remarkable bravery and resourcefulness in saving her son from Pharaoh's decree. Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, in his Passover haggadah, highlights Yokheved's anonymity and courage, emphasizing her pivotal role in Jewish history.
Foundations of Our ForefathersMUSAR
Foundations of Our Forefathers
MUSAR
The biblical patriarchs and matriarchs are seen as foundational figures whose actions set precedents for future generations. Rabbi Isaiah HaLevi Horowitz’s 17th-century work Shenei Luchot HaBerit explores how these figures rehabilitated the damage caused by Adam's sin.
Who Redeems the Firstborn?GUIDES
Who Redeems the Firstborn?
GUIDES
The mitzvah of Pidyon HaBen (redemption of the firstborn) raises the fundamental question of who is obligated in the redemption — the father or the firstborn son himself. Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz explores the scenario where the son must redeem himself if the father did not fulfill this obligation, highlighting the importance of this practice in Jewish law.
The Roots of Parental FavoritismKABBALAH
The Roots of Parental Favoritism
KABBALAH
Isaac's love for his son Esau can be explored through the lens of natural human tendencies and parental favoritism. The Zohar, a central text in Jewish mysticism, delves into the psychological and emotional dimensions of biblical narratives.